Qualities That Make You An Attractive And Desirable Partner
This society has lead us to almost believe that if you look good, you get all the attention. If you look attractive, you have an upper hand at everything. If you look appealing, you can have anything you wish for. But, it isn’t entirely true. With the kind of people we have in our generation, we’re very glad to understand that only outer beauty isn’t everything for a person to look attractive or have things their way. There’s a lot more than just physical appearance that catches our attention. And if you’re someone who would like to find out more about what qualities of you makes you a desirable partner, we’ve got something that you’d love to read.
Do your own thing, even if it isn’t a trend
Anyone and everyone can do things with peer pressure. But does that really define you? Is that who you are? Even if you like something that’s not popular, do it anyway. There will be thousands who will follow the trend, but if you’re doing the opposite just because you want to and it makes you happy, you’re going to get some eyes on you. And some of these might also end up finding you attractive. You do you, remember?
Avoid petty nonsense
Now, we don’t even have to begin talking about how people can get into petty arguments and fights over trivial things. And it has got a lot to do with how they think and function. But if you aren’t one of them, you don’t have to get involved just for the sake of it. This kind of validation to belong to a certain group is not at all attractive. Be who you are. Be someone who will oppose everything in a petty conversation. It’s attractive when someone has a different opinion and moreover, a positive one. And if you don’t have an opinion, just avoid the pettiness. It’s as simple and attractive as well.
A lot of people are good talkers and a lot are good listeners too. But very few out of these are actually paying attention. Listening to just reply is one thing and listening to understand, remember and respond is another. It’s very attractive in these times when someone remembers the details of what we talk and include it in a conversation later sometime. It makes us feel like we’re heard enough and that someone was truly paying attention.
Defend the unwanted
You will meet a lot of people who would talk about you behind your back and some even on your face. But if someone tries to defend you in both situations, it’s very attractive for you to know that there’s at least a person who doesn’t think of you in a certain way. Be someone who will defend the unwanted as and when required. It’s too easy to be the bully, but quite different and difficult to be the defender. Defending people who can’t defend themselves is very desirable.
Be comfortable being alone
People need people to comfort them, to support them, to love them, to make them feel wanted. But you must learn to be comfortable being all by yourself. It will teach you things about yourself that you must have not discovered while being around people. Once you start loving your own company and are very comfortable being alone, it will all fall at ease. It automatically attracts us towards people who are this comfortable with self.